--- gvpe/src/connection.C	2004/05/10 21:24:48	1.35
+++ gvpe/src/connection.C	2004/05/30 17:36:00	1.36
@@ -591,7 +591,9 @@
     {
       connectmode = conf->connectmode;
 
-      rekey.start (NOW + ::conf.rekey);
+      // make sure rekeying timeouts are slightly asymmetric
+      rekey.start (NOW + ::conf.rekey
+                   + (conf->id > THISNODE->id ? 10 : 0));
       keepalive.start (NOW + ::conf.keepalive);
 
       // send queued packets